I guess I’m kind of an entrepreneur. In New York people have numerous things that they’re constantly working on; not necessarily one job. Unless you’re like a financial analyst at Morgan Stanley, that’s a particular role, but for me
I have an ultimate goal in my career, which is to bring people together
let that be a party, let that be an event or a workshop - that’s my passion - And also bringing awareness to people of color. I think eventually I would like to be a cultural attaché, either for Kenya, Ethiopia or Somalia to highlight cultural things there like Arts and Literature. All of the things I’m doing now are sort of leading me toward that path. When you’re younger you think things will be more linear. Like ‘oh I’m going to go to college and then I’m going to get this certain job, then I do the next job’.
You have a list you think you can check off, but life is not like that. Everything that I’ve done and everything that I do now is building towards something.
I felt like I was making a lot of lateral moves. I didn’t really understand what I wanted to do or how to move on, it was just a really confusing time, and it’s still confusing. But I think I accepted at some point that it’s okay not to know exactly how things should go. I mean you know eventually what path you’re moving towards but I don’t need to have a singular labeled job to get there. I feel like I made that next level move when I started Everyday People and I was able to quit my job and do that full-time.
That’s when I realized that if you do something for the love of it, the money will come. If you go into something focusing on the money, there’s not going to be any soul behind it – and people can tell when something is lacking in soul.
And Everyday People wasn’t just me, it took a group effort. I contacted a bunch of DJs and Moma was actually the only one who responded with a space that we could use for the party and my friend Roble (Chef Roble) we used as a guest host to secure the menu. Then Roble joined us as a partner. So it’s a collaboration and a mix of all of our friends attending. That was an opportunity that really helped me believe in myself. Another opportunity was when I worked for Saint Heron. I learned a lot! In the beginning, I didn’t think that I had the credentials to do the work that I was doing. Then I realized, you just gotta get in there, you know what I mean? You’re your own worst enemy.
It’s scary when you don’t feel that inspiration, but that happens from time to time. Like recently I wanted to do some events and I was thinking ‘why am I not really feeling passionate? Why am I not feeling excited?’ and I just had to stop over-thinking it. Read books, read magazines, go to exhibitions, talk to people, listen to music, and then those things spark your inspiration. Recently I did a proposal for a brand and I was having such difficulty coming up with a good idea and eventually it fell through. But the fact that I put so much pressure on myself to try to think of this creative idea was inorganic to my process.